Thanks, Pop. You were one in a million.

[karlht]

RIP Dennis Allen McDaniel. Born Nov. 12, 1941. Died at home, Dec. 16, 2011.

My wife's family has always done an extraordinary job of loving me for who and what I am, and Dennis's matter-of-fact acceptance of me as a worthy husband for his step-daughter and a welcome addition to his family was always at the forefront of that love. I could ask for no better model of humanity, decency, and dedication to making a marriage work in the face of everything this unfriendly world throws at us. May memories and stories of him gladden our hearts for many years to come.

Comments

[arliss]

Oh Karl, what an eloquent thing to say. I'm so sorry for your loss, and that of your family. My deepest condolences; I send all of you peace and comfort.

[karlht]

Thank you. I can almost feel your arms enfolding us. You are a lovely human being and a marvellous friend.

[minim_calibre]

I am so, so sorry, my dearest. That's too young.

[karlht]

Agreed; I was hoping for another 15 years with him. And you are 'dearest' to us, too, you know. Love to P and the no-longer-tiny Bean. And huge, reckless, overblown hugs to you. I miss you a whole lot.

[cadenzamuse]

I'm so sorry to hear that. Healing thoughts to your family, and extra hugs for L, please.

[karlht]

Thank you; I'll see that she gets them. Much love to you and T, from us and M as well. Keep each other safe for us, please?

[zmayhem]

I'm slowly getting caught up on long-neglected threads and just saw this. I am so very sorry. Dennis sounds like such a deeply good man. What a good thing for both your wife and you to have had someone so loving and accepting in your lives, in your family. And, still, not nearly enough time. All my good thoughts and love and wishes for comfort and the coming of spring.

[karlht]

And it's taken me almost two months to reply. Thank you, my good and kind friend. Your love and gentle words mean more than I can properly express.

All sorts of love and gentle silliness to you and yours; not a day goes by that I don't think of your smile and David's laugh. Again, words fail me, but please remember that the 'dearly beloved' in the beginning of the marriage ceremony isn't just how the bride and groom feel about the guests -- it's the other way, as well.